The Power of Emotion to Touch a Woman’s Heart

Recently, I’ve been talking a lot about power of touch, but what about the power of emotion to touch a woman’s heart? Now that’s real power!

The heart is the seat of all of our emotions – and emotions are VERY powerful. They have the power for both good and ill. Just as words can bring encouragement and hope, they can also bring anger and jealousy. So you see our words and actions (even thoughts) can create powerful feelings. Why not put them to good use in your relationship?

Have you ever noticed when you think on something for a while with some level of concentration how much feelings it can engender in your our heart. The Bible says, “as a man thinks, so is he.” So we become what we think about. OK, maybe not literally, but you get the point. If we focus on a thought, feeling or idea long enough it can have a profound impact on our lives and those around us – especially on those we love.

A counselor once told me that if we repeatedly play those old negative tapes in our head we will keep thinking the same old negative things about those we love. Then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. However, it we replace the negative images with positive ones we can start to gain some ground and experience again the person we know and love.

Isn’t it amazing that out of the same mouth we can both give a blessing and cursing? Words can help to bring healing or hurt, help or harm. I remember one night I was feeling rather amorous and my wife was not. Something was bothering her. Upon further examination I discovered something harmful that I had said earlier that morning was still upsetting her. I had let it go…she had not.

Be careful that the words you speak are uplifting and encouraging to your partner. Showing kindness with words is underrated. You can’t kill someone by showing kindness, but you sure can create feelings of love.

If actions do indeed speak louder than words, many of us are in trouble. It’s been said that what we do speaks so loudly that people can’t hear what we say. I have a teaching background and one of the things I picked up along the way is that with children a lot more is caught than taught. In other words you have to model the behavior or actions that you desire to see in your students.

The same is true for adults in relationships. If you want more love and affection in your life you need to show or give that to your partner. Find a way to touch her heart by doing something special for her.

Remember when you two had “the moment” when you both knew you just clicked together. A lot of things went into that. True love just doesn’t happen. And once it does occur it doesn’t just maintain itself without effort either. You found out what makes her happy and what she enjoys. You found her a special Christmas gift that she will treasure in her heart for many years to come…all because you cared enough to spend the time to find that stuff out.

What makes her tick? What does she care about? Re-explore these things and take action to reach her heart. My wife likes keepsakes or mementos. I got her an anniversary gift once with our wedding date and our names on a candle holder. When the candle burns it has a really cool reflective pattern that gives the impression that it goes on forever. That’s what you should want with her memories of you and your love together. You see the power of feelings at work?

So, can you see how the power of emotions can really work to touch your sweetie’s heart? You get to her emotions by focusing on positive thoughts of her, using kind and uplifting words to her, and taking loving actions that create lasting memories of your love.

Relationship Coach, Mort Fertel talks about creating love out of nothing by using our words and touch. Think about it. If you have kids or know someone who does, you know we also love our kids and would do anything for them. We wake up in the middle of the night to meet their needs if their sick, or whatever their need may be. We may feel exhausted, but the more we do, the more love we create in our own hearts, and in the heart of the person we love. The same is true for your spouse or your partner. So keep on loving.

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