Writing Romantic Love Letters to Your Sweetie

Recently, I received an old card from my wife that she had made for me over 22 years ago for a Valentine’s Day present. I had no idea that she saved all of those old letters and cards we used to send each other when we were dating. Now I admit that I’m pretty much a softy when it comes to sentimental things. But, when I read her card, and read all those old romantic love letters she wrote to me (44 in just one summer!) I was moved to tears. Ah…young love.

This really got me to thinking of the importance of writing hand written letters to each other, along with some well timed cards, love poems and notes. We both treasure all that correspondence we sent to each other – obviously she does since she saved it all in her memory box. I think it is also important to get out all those cards and letters and read through them. That’s especially true when you’re feeling down, or when you’re having doubts about your relationship. It really helps to see what you valued in your relationship compared to what your values are now. This can lead to some wonderful heartfelt discussions.

As for the writing part, you may be asking, “what do I write about?” The simple answer is whatever your sweetie cares about. Ask yourself, “What is going on in your sweetie’s life right now?”, and write about that. Write down all of your thoughts and feelings about whatever the concern is and let them know that you’re there to support them all the way. It’s not necessary to offer solutions to all of their problems. In fact, most women will resent that very much if you try to solve their problems. Just a listening ear is all that is necessary. Offer your opinion only if it is asked for.

If you’re not sure what your sweetheart is concerned about, then go ahead and ask that in your letter. It can lead to a valuable exchange – either in person, or in writing. Don’t wait to find out what’s going on in their life. Otherwise, you may wake up one day and find out that the person you thought you knew is someone completely different. You may not like that change. But, if you talk at least you won’t be surprised.

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